Emotions

Life is predominantly composed of ordinary moments, far outnumbering the extraordinary ones. Whether you are patiently queuing at the supermarket, enduring the daily commute to work, or tending to routine tasks such as feeding pets or doing the washing, the ordinary hours make up the fabric of your existence.

The essence of true happiness lies in the ability to discover moments of joy and fulfilment within the seemingly mundane routines of daily life. Real happiness is about finding beauty in the simplicity of everyday life, appreciating the small pleasures that weave through the tapestry of ordinary hours.

It can be as simple as witnessing the magic of how sunlight bounces off the corner of a sugar crystal left on the side of your coffee cup in the morning. Then through being open to the experience you have noticed how the sunlight reflected through that sugar crystal is scattered in a rainbow of colours onto an otherwise plain wall. Then recognise that happiness, joy, wonder or contentment can flourish in the most unassuming moments.

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Life can often teach us all valuable lessons through our experiences, and often more significantly through what we would term mistakes. When you make mistakes, it is imperative not to berate yourself. Instead look at this as an opportunity to reflect on what proverbially went wrong, then learn from your experiences. Even better yet, apply this learning to make changes to your thinking, behaviour or decisions going forward.

Making mistakes or odd slip-ups is a natural part of the learning process and can help us to develop resilience, perseverance, and a greater sense of self-awareness. When you have made a mistake, you should take the opportunity to honestly look at what happened, rather than trying to blame someone else or the situation. In doing so, you force yourself to examine your weaknesses and limitations which leads to the problem. That is the source of learning which can then be applied forward in your life.

It’s important to bear in mind that learning from your mistakes, blunders, missteps or even faux pas calls for readiness, to be honest with yourselves, take responsibility for your actions, and make a real effort to learn from your experiences. It is additionally important to exercise self-compassion and forgiveness. You do not want to proverbially beat yourself up about a past blunder or error which after all is now in the past and cannot be changed. Try to limit the time you spend examining the past, because if you dwell too long on these past incidents you may find yourself being dragged back down to the level of the problem and situation, which could be damaging to your overall mental well-being.

Take the opportunity to examine and learn from your mistakes. You do not need to live them over and over again in your mind. Then accept and embrace the learnings which have been gained from the past, to provide an effective means to grow and develop as an individual.

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If you are a compulsive overthinker, you may be familiar with some of the following thoughts. Am I with the right person? Am I following my passions? Am I doing what I love? What is my purpose in life? Am I happy?

In many parts of the Western World, it seems as though one of these, the pursuit of happiness has become the ultimate overthinker or overachiever’s goal. Happiness from material life can outrank professional achievement and sometimes family and friendship. It can even minimise others’ achievements and takes the shine off our own.

Through the deluge of various social media memes, self-help books, guides, and even some meditations, there is a deep cultural aversion to negativity which is growing in society. This can be a welcome change, but the pressure to remain positive at all times often results in some complicated mental gymnastics. For example, renaming a report which lists strengths and weaknesses as strengths and emerging strengths or renaming problems as opportunities or challenges.

We all need to face the reality of life that every day is not always going to be perfect; we all have proverbial ups and downs. For most of us, each day will be filled with a proverbial sea of thoughts, emotions and feelings. How we learn to balance with this, is the real key in life. Learn to distil the positives from your life and enjoy those aspects which do bring real happiness. Then as you face true challenges or emotional dark spots, you can pull upon some of these past strengths and happiness. Most importantly, stop trying to overthink every aspect of life and that every moment must be sublime happiness, will bring you the freedom to be your real self.

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Your astrological key code is encoded within you at the time of your birth due to the ambient solar system energies. This astrological key code is similar to the programming within an app on your smartphone or computer program. It helps to define your standard pre-programmed ways of thinking and reactions to life.

At the time of your birth, the energies of the constellation behind the Sun (your Sun sign) will be amplified to create astrological programming within you. This precast programming contains a blueprint of the emotional reactions you will have, the type of thought patterns you resonate with, as well as the strengths and weaknesses of your body. The personality traits and aspects of your birth constellation will form an underlying basis for how you think and the flow of emotions in your life. It is because of this astrological key code, that you will react more strongly to different people and situations in your life.

When the ambient energies of the Solar System or constellations resonate more strongly with your astrological key code, then it is likely you will react or respond with greater intensity. So now, you may begin to appreciate how different people can absorb, process and respond to the same situations in life in completely different ways, as their astrological key code colours their life and reactions.

Once you realise how you react and express thoughts and emotions is pre-programmed, you can more easily adapt to situations in life.

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Increasingly all of our lives are being affected by the cult of social media and celebrity. You can become your own influencer, an influencer of your life, for life.

While you may see the snippets of other people’s lives around you, do not allow those illusions of the perfect body, dream lifestyles, fantasy homes or other seemingly enviable aspects to dominate your thinking. Steadily more and more of us are becoming unhappy, disillusioned or even worse, as we compare our lives to the world of others.

Take the opportunity to look at your own life; realise and recognise all that you have achieved. In this way, you become your own influencer, a unique influencer. It can start with a very simple concept such as “I am enough”, or “I have achieved”. Establishing this self-influencer mindset will give you a newfound sense of happiness and contentment, allowing you to continue to influence your life for the better. Make the effort to create a mantra, which you repeat every morning or even throughout the day until it sinks in and your mind accepts it. As you allow this positive aspect to build within your life, you will begin to discover that many things are your own source of happiness. You will quickly realise that “I am enough, I have enough, I have always been enough and I always will be enough” can be very powerful tools as an influencer of your own life and destiny.

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Did you know that there is a powerful, unseen energy within you that circulates to maintain every cell and organ in your body? This energy is the Universal Force which surrounds and permeates you, binding the universe together. This energy is also essential to your general health, vitality, and well-being. This energy of life is known by many names such as Prana, Chi (Qi) and the Force in numerous cultures. This is the primordial, all-encompassing energy of the Force, which pervades not only you but every person & everything.

An essential aspect of your wellbeing is the unobstructed flow of this Chi or Prana energy throughout the human form. This energy of the Universal Force circulates naturally through the body along energy pathways or channels, as part of the human energy mechanism. The term meridians characterise the energy distribution system as represented in Chinese medicine, and details how the basic substances of life permeate the entire body. When this energy becomes constricted or blocked that can lead to problems. When the flow of Prana or Chi is disrupted, this can produce various types of sickness or illness.

What is the key to ensuring that your Chi energy flows freely and normally? There are many popular techniques, with Qigong, Tai Chi, and Reiki topping the list, along with several types of frequency-based meditations professing success. However, the one element that all these techniques share in common is some form of meditation is an integral component. Though you should be aware that some of these practices may introduce their own problems as the practitioner may not fully comprehend the human <a href=”/wellbeing/the-energy-mechanism/” target=”_blank”>energy mechanism</a> and the potential side-effects of their practice.

Practised for many thousands of years, meditation is seen as the principal means of clearing and balancing any kind of imbalance along the network of meridians to restore the correct flow of Prana or Chi. However, what is not known by the majority of experts or practitioners is that it is their own thoughts and emotions which have caused various restrictions or blockages in the flow of the Universal Force. This is why performing meditation with the purpose of awareness to understand your true nature is very essential to your ongoing health and wellness.

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Negativity in the form of thoughts, emotions and opinions is something which exists in life. This is the actuality of the world in which we live. The skill is working out how to handle such negativity when you encounter it, as you will inevitably do.

While there can be lots of notional techniques for taking care of negativity, the easiest and most effective way is to resonate above it. If all of your mind is functioning at a higher frequency level, then the discord which can be created by negativity is much less likely to affect you. It is only when you are thinking similar thoughts, that like draws in like and your own thoughts become pulled to the negative thoughts, situations or activities happening in life. So continually strive to maintain your thoughts and emotions at a higher state of being, to ensure that you are resonating above negativity.

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It can be common for people to struggle to remain awake on occasions during meditation due to three separate factors (see later on). Regardless of the explanations for having this propensity to doze off, the key resides in applying your awareness. Becoming aware is a core competency to be acquired through meditation, so, intriguingly, being aware is the key to not zoning out during your meditation activities.

The most common reason for people having a tendency to doze off during meditation is unsurprising a result of their hectic or frantic lives. If you have had a busy day or have struggled with stress, then you might identify that you often become drowsy during your meditation. This is simply because your body begins to destress from the pressures of your life as you perform the meditation activity. If you regularly experience this, then take time out to stand or splash some water on your face before proceeding. During the afternoon, lots of people experience an energy slump which can affect them when meditating. If that is the case, then it could be more beneficial for you to practice meditation in the morning when the body is awake. It is also common that a relaxed posture can contribute to the impulse to nod off, so take the opportunity to get started with some improved posture before you start your meditation. It does not mean that you need to sit in a contorted position, just becoming more aware of your body is the key.

A much more bewildering reason why you may become sleepy during your meditation is that your mind is proactively functioning to control your life. This might sound like a dichotomy that falling asleep is because of the activity of your mind. Yet it is effectively your mind which is applying control over you, hindering your ability to successfully practice meditation. In this way you might feel as though you are not succeeding, and that you cannot meditate. When the fact is, your mind is compelling you to be this way to ensure that it can preserve control. If you continue to meditate, you can strive to take back control from your mind, nevertheless be aware that your mind is most likely to strongly resist giving up control at any cost.

The final aspect which is seldom taken into consideration is that through the process of learning to meditate, you can awaken some of the inner energy of your true self. As the energy of your Life Force flows into your body, this can initially lead to a sensation of tiredness or even phasing out. This is simply because your body and mind are not accustomed to these kinds of energy apart from the minuscule quantities which are necessary to keep the human mechanism alive. If you are experiencing zoning out, then the key once more is the application of awareness. Being aware, as mentioned previously, is a cornerstone of meditation and it is never truer than when your Life Force energies begin to come to the fore via advanced meditation. As you apply your awareness, know these energies flow through the energy pathways (meridians) of your body. This knowing, through your awareness, will assist you to maintain your focus and not zone off. ♾ Awaken your Mind ♾